tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1121548883067837208.post7226541167009636182..comments2023-08-10T03:48:51.430-04:00Comments on Our Little Brownies: ConflictsJeannie @ Living Loving Craftinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16749950323408993936noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1121548883067837208.post-83833160136001215922009-05-11T13:49:00.000-04:002009-05-11T13:49:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry, hon. I kind of know how you feel. ...I'm so sorry, hon. I kind of know how you feel. Chris and I got into it the other night about me not feeling like he's being supportive enough and I told him I was contemplating having my mom in the room during the delivery because he wasn't taking anything I was going through seriously. He has shaped up since then, but I guess for the guys - it must be hard because they can only "imagine" what it must be like for us. They don't realize how much worry goes into this, how unprepared we constantly feel, how much it sucks to not be able to tie your own shoes or shave your legs. They are just observers through all of this, which is why it's important they know how much support we really need from them.<br /><br />Hang in there - only a few more weeks to go and then you'll be home with your boys and this will all be a distant memory. Just another story to tell the boys some day. :)<br /><br />Big hugs!Aliceahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01870450001675288602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1121548883067837208.post-76096199033892465862009-05-11T10:31:00.000-04:002009-05-11T10:31:00.000-04:00I can't even imagine what you're going through, bu...I can't even imagine what you're going through, but don't feel guilty for your thoughts! It's only natural for your mind to process all sorts of emotions! You (and James and your two precious boys) are in my thoughts! They'll be here before you know it (but hopefully not befure 34 weeks) and then the fun begins!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00507372497693055694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1121548883067837208.post-23669419613263558242009-05-11T10:25:00.000-04:002009-05-11T10:25:00.000-04:00i'm sorry you guys are going through this. it's d...i'm sorry you guys are going through this. it's definitely hard. i feel like crying most days bc i feel dh isn't able to spend enough time with me bc he's working or doing other things for other people all the time. i think one thing that's hard for a lot of people is learning to ask for help and/ or say no. <br /><br />and i can't say i know how you feel being in the hospital, but i share the same feelings as you. i'm just so ready to not be pregnant anymore and i feel sorry for myself when i'm having a bad day or when my back hurts, instead of trying to put it on the back burner and concentrate on having a baby. but i also don't think that women/soon to be mom's shouldn't put themselves off either. we need to take care of ourselves too. if we're not well taken care of, our babies/families can't be well taken care of either. i just told dh this morning how i was throwing myself a pity party and it's just not fair. and not knowing when it will all end just doesn't help things. i'll be thinking of you, and hopefully it will all end soon!Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17780240557066634540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1121548883067837208.post-49040333196512531992009-05-11T10:21:00.000-04:002009-05-11T10:21:00.000-04:00Hun dont feel guilty for feeling the way you do. ...Hun dont feel guilty for feeling the way you do. You are in such a diffuclt moment right now, and its only natural to feel the way you do.<br />Just remember that there are lots praying for you, the boys and James. <br />Lots of hugs and loveShannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12002935874530822123noreply@blogger.com